At some point in your relationship, you may feel like your partner is cheating on you—perhaps because they no longer treat you the same way or seem emotionally distant.
The truth is that most relationships have their ups and downs, and periods of insecurity and lack of trust come and go.
Seasoned private investigator Ray Ranno believes there is a consistent sign of infidelity to watch for when it comes to men.
Ranno has been tailing suspected cheaters for many years and claims there is one thing most men do before getting involved with the person they are cheating with.
In fact, the Connecticut-based private investigator has worked with “hundreds of attorneys, insurance companies, self-insured companies, universities, police departments, and the private sector,” and has caught “thousands of spouses cheating.”
“My job is to uncover the evidence of your spouse cheating so you can make a sound decision about your future,” he writes on his website. “We perform discreet surveillance on your spouse and determine if they are lying to you about their whereabouts or if they’re involved with other persons.”
Speaking on the podcast of host Ian Bick, Ranno says that when meeting with the girl on the side, men tend to clean their car first.
“As soon as somebody goes to the car wash I think ‘Ha ha, what’s next?’ It’s amazing how they do that… Women don’t do it so much because they usually jump in the guy’s car – men always want to drive. It’s very rare that I see a guy jump into a female’s car.”
His methods of catching the cheater in the act are as discreet as they are effective and usually involve a coffee cup with a hidden HD camera.
“If I go into a coffee place or a supermarket wherever I need to be, I just take the lid off, turn it on, put the cap on, and it looks like I’m walking around with a coffee,” he explained. “Meantime, I’m videotaping everything.”
This, however, is just one of the signs and the ones described don’t only apply to men but to women, too.
According to experts at UK Private Investigators, “If your partner, who has never shown much interest in doing the laundry, suddenly starts insisting on washing their own clothes, this could be a red flag.
“If they are cheating, they may be worried about things like perfume, lipstick marks, or stray hairs on their clothes, and doing their own laundry allows them to hide these signs without you noticing.”
Further, they say your spouse’s mileage can also reveal something is out of the ordinary. “A change in mileage that doesn’t match up with your partner’s usual routine or work commitments can be another subtle but telling sign,” the investigators said.
“If they claim to have been nearby, whether they said they were at work later than usual or at the gym, a large increase in mileage that doesn’t match up with this may indicate secret trips to meet someone.”
Well, if the mileage is lower than usual, that can also be a sign and they might be involved with someone living locally.
Another sign investigators highlight is the change in the partner’s behavior when it comes to privacy. So, if you were allowed an access to their phone but they’ve changed their passwords out of the blue and no longer let you have their phone, it may leave you wondering if they are hiding something.
“Changes in privacy on your partner’s devices, like a new password, locked apps, or logging out of shared devices like a laptop, can suggest that they are hiding something.”
Has your partner suddenly spent a large amount of money on something you know isn’t meant for you, even though there’s no birthday, anniversary, or special occasion coming up? Private investigators say unexplained purchases like this can sometimes be a sign that a spouse may be seeing someone else.
“Things like unexplained expenses, hidden purchases, or unusual cash withdrawals can sometimes be a sign that your partner is being unfaithful,” the experts say.
“Whether they are buying dinners, gifts, hotel rooms, or transport, people having an affair tend to spend more money than usual.”
Of course, paying more attention to the way they look and dress is one of the most obvious signs they could be unfaithful.
One of the experts argued, “A sudden, unexplained effort to improve appearance, such as new clothes, changes to their hair, or increased time at the gym, might be a sign of trying to impress someone new.
“While self-improvement and taking pride in their appearance isn’t suspicious in itself, it can be a red flag when they don’t tell you what their motivation is, or if they don’t show interest in your opinion or attention following the changes to their appearance.”
So, if you suspect your partner might be cheating on you, pay better attention to these signs.
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